Who Is Joey Graziadei on ‘The Bachelorette’? Meet The Man Who Broke The Longest Kiss Record With Charity Lawson

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Two episodes in and The Bachelorette Season 20 is already a record-breaking season thanks to Charity Lawson’s strong connection with one contestant in particular: Joey Graziadei.

During a group date in Episode 2, Graziadei competed against several other contestants for a chance at smashing The Bachelor’s record for longest kiss. And his smooch with Lawson didn’t just crush the record, it will go down in reality TV history.

So who is Joey Graziadei on The Bachelorette Season 20? How did his group date with Lawson and the guys turn into a one-on-one? And how long does Reality Steve see him sticking around on the show?

Here’s everything we know about Joey Graziadei, including his age, Instagram handle, and more.

Who Is Joey Graziadei on The Bachelorette?

Joey Graziadei is a 27-year-old tennis pro from Lawai, Hawaii who’s given Lawson butterflies since Night 1. During The Bachelorette premiere, we learned Graziadei hadn’t watched the show before checking out Charity’s season, but he told her it was nice to see how genuine she was on camera. He also revealed he’s a hopeless romantic (despite his parents splitting up when he was young), and he gave Lawson a Hawaiian flower to put behind her ear to signify she’s single and looking for love. Graziadei then explained that when Lawson finds love at the end of her journey, ideally with him, she can honor Hawaiian culture by moving the flower behind her left ear to signify she’s unavailable.

Joey Graziadei on 'The Bachelorette'
Photo: ABC/Ricky Middlesworth

If you’re looking to learn the basics about Graziadei, his official ABC bio is as follows: “‘Love’ may mean nothing in tennis, but to Joey, it’s everything! After graduation, this tennis pro quickly realized the corporate world wasn’t for him and moved to Hawaii to live his passion of teaching his favorite sport. Spending his days on the court and evenings on the beach watching the sunset with friends, Joey’s life is truly paradise. The only thing missing is someone with whom to share it. Outgoing, friendly and loyal, Joey is looking for a partner who can share in his love for adventure. Will he find a doubles partner in Charity? Here’s to hoping it’s “game, set, match” for Joey!”

And now, for his delightful fun facts:

  • Joey is a die-hard Green Bay Packers fan.
  • Joey is an avid stargazer.
  • Joey’s recent obsessions are golf and country music.

If you want the inside scoop on Joey’s personal journey throughout the season, you can follow him on Instagram at @joeygraziadei, where he had 7,471 followers ahead of Season 20, Episode 2. So how did Graziadei’s first Bachelorette date go? Time for the recap!

Joey Graziadei And Charity Lawson’s Date: Breaking The Bachelor’s Longest Kiss Record

From Night 1, Lawson liked Graziadei’s smile and overall presence, and those feelings only grew when he charmed her and former Bachelorette leads Rachel Recchia and Gabby Windey one of the first group dates of Season 20.

Joey, John Henry, Michael, Warwick, Spencer, and Josh met the ladies at a park in downtown Los Angeles to compete for a chance to break a Bachelor Nation record in front of a live audience. After the men answered a series of questions about kissing and their attraction to Charity, the Bachelorette leads decided Graziadei made the best impression, so he and Lawson set a stopwatch and started smooching in the hopes of breaking The Bachelor‘s “longest kiss” record of around three minutes and 27 seconds held by Bachelor Sean Lowe and Lesley Murphy. The two locked lips for a whopping four minutes and 25 seconds, and as a reward, they got to spend the rest of the date together one-on-one.

Joey Graziadei and Charity Lawson on 'The Bachelorette'
Photo: ABC/Craig Sjodin

Later that night, Graziadei opened up to Lawson about his family over drinks and shared the reason his parents got a divorce when he was younger. “I think a lot of times that can be viewed as being in a broken home, but I felt love from both of them, and I think it’s also important to share why they ended up breaking up,” he said, before sharing that his dad came out.

“It’s amazing to see the love they still have for each other, and they were great parents,” Graziadei continued, sharing that his family’s journey taught him how important love is and made him a more accepting person. Lawson thanked him for opening up to her and ended the night by offering him the date rose.

How Far Does Joey Graziadei Make It On The Bachelorette? Reality Steve Weighs In

If you want to avoid major Bachelorette spoilers for Charity Lawson’s Season 20, consider this your chance to stop reading. But if you’re curious to know how far Joey Graziadei makes it on the show this season, we’ve got a Reality Steve rumor below. 

Per Reality Steve, Lawson and Graziadei have a Hometown Date, which means he makes it to Lawson’s Top 4. So is Joey Graziadei the winner of The Bachelorette? Reality Steve isn’t sure yet. Details post-Hometown Dates still remain unknown to Bachelor Nation’s favorite spoiler, but per Reality Steve, there’s a chance Graziadei makes it to Lawson’s Top 3.

As always, Reality Steve rumors are only rumors until proven otherwise, so we’ll have to tune in to the rest of the season to see how things play out on screen for Charity.

New episodes of The Bachelorette Season 20 premiere on Mondays at 9 p.m. ET on ABC. Episodes are available for next-day streaming on Hulu.